My BFF and I were chatting the other day. (That's right! It's perfectly OK for a grown woman to have a BFF and refer to the BFF as "BFF"...ok???) So we were talking about how seemingly boring our lives are now. I told her, I WANT my life "boring". I love it when everyone is HOME (and preferably sleeping).
my cousin and I somewhere on a rooftop in NYC... the PINK the blond, the tans... says it all.
Yes it's true, if we're comparing our lives now to when we were 20 something and out every single night, falling in love at least three times per week, staying up till 5am and going to work two hours later.... Though believe it or not back then I remember feeling bored and now I don't. Now days I have to choose which social interaction to have since I can't really participate in everything, and it's perfectly acceptable (since you know: "... the kid, the kid..."). Yes life is quieter and more relaxed, but boring? No, I would not call it that - restful is more the right word.
So now when people ask me "So what's going on? What are you up to?" I proudly say with a smile, "Thank goodness NOTHING, just this and that, walks in the park... home stuff..." and think to myself, I don't "HAVE" to be up to anything anymore, I can watch Jr. grow and pretty much anything I do on top of that is extra bonus points. So bring on more of the BORING!!!
My BFF said: You're RETIRED at 34??? I said: I like the sound of that! :P ((now if we could only make it official where there was no 9-5))
(Then I told her to hurry up and have a kid so she can join me in "retirement")
Hurray!
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