The Laws of Attraction Primavera-fied.

>> Thursday, January 25, 2007

Again and again we keep addressing the mystery that are men and why is it that the most illogical things make them SO attracted to us.

Have you ever wondered why girls that seem a bit dumb get more guys then girls that are smart and are not "hiding it"?? Is that why our grandmothers tell us to: say LESS and just smile MORE? Have you ever thought about what is the TRUE message of the statement "Women are meant to be seen not heard"?

Well we're about to find out. (Courtesy of SPHQRT - sempre primavera head quarters research team.)

First lets revisit the most basic and PRIMARY rule of human interaction.

Make others feel important

We all want to feel important, respected and good about ourselves. We like people who make us feel smart and nice, and we stay away from those that are disrespectful to us. Just simple logic.
If you can remember that you're already half way through the laws of attraction.

Lets see what Sugarbaby suggests, a cosmetics company whose philosophy is centered around "pretty, pink, princess" basically all things super feminine:

a) purr like a kitten
b) pout like a baby
c) glow like a peach
d) bathe like a goddess

Purring like a kitten is basically a way of saying make your guy feel important. When a cute kitten purrs and rubs its head against your knee don't you just feel loved? Even if you're not a cat person, you can't help but want to cuddle and play with the kitten. Same thing with guys, they need to feel that we like them. (Just note: this does not mean call them 50x per day, it simply means act all HAPPY when they call you.)

Pouting like a baby is yet another way to stroke a guy's ego. If you exhibit little girl/baby behavior it makes them feel like they need to protect you since obviously you're incapable. And apparently that's an attractive quality in a woman, being incapable that is. For that reason men seem to be obsessed with younger women, strippers, drug addicts... and poor girls. The need to protect, rescue.... in other words fulfill THEIR need to feel important. So if you're one of the unlucky girls who is NOT 12, stripper or a druggie and gosh forbid, have money, you need to artificially create the illusion of needing "assistance". Simple example: ask to be picked up and dropped of in front of your house (since public transportation is scary and you forgot how to drive your car). Don't ask for expensive things - that's not polite, but do ask for things that will inconvenience him on your behalf just slightly but enough to make him feel the "pain". The more he does for YOU the more important he feels. You are doing him a favor!

Glowing like a peach is straight forward: take good care of how you look, and smile more. Make him feel like his presence makes you - well, GLOW. After all... who was it that said "The world is simply a mirror that reflects back what you feel inside". People reflect back to you what you show them. You smile, they'll smile back. (Unless you're on Staten Island Ferry, then you'll get smacked in the head.)

Bathe like a goddess is even more simple, it indirectly states: Respect yourself and demand respect from others. If you want your guy to treat YOU like a goddess, you must show him by example of first treating YOURSELF like a goddess. Pamper yourself and he'll know he has to pamper you too to be on the level. "High maintenance"? ABSOLUTELY! Its not as much for us, as for the guys! What guy won't feel proud and (IMPORTANT) if he is able to go out with a girl who everyone considers a princess. "Wow, he must be something if SHE wants to go out with him."

Simple simple simple!

And as promised what does "Women are to be seen not heard" really mean? It is simply a plea from men to us women to please not show our intelligence too much as they're not able to HANDLE it!

Sorry boys, we'll keep it down so you can keep it up ;)

Note to all men: this post was not meant to be insulting, don't be pissed. There is nothing wrong with wanting to feel important, and we WANT our guys to feel important because they ARE. We LOVE YOU GUYS! All this is just friendly and silly banter for entertainment! We'd be SO totally lost without you guys, you know that!!!

;) .....hehehe


Alessandra,  January 25, 2007 at 7:35 PM  

gosh... i hope NICO doesn't find any of this crap! ... :))))

cadiz12 January 25, 2007 at 8:48 PM  

yes, i gave myself a pedicure for him, that's right.

i'll be sure not to smile at you if i'm ever on that ferry.

vespa-rosso,  January 25, 2007 at 9:02 PM  

best line: "You smile, they'll smile back. (Unless you're on Staten Island Ferry, then you'll get smacked in the head."

ale January 25, 2007 at 9:17 PM  

well no cadiz YOU can smile at me! :))) its others that are not allowed, nor are they allowed to even look at me... yuk cus they're ugly!

Un-Swiss Miss January 26, 2007 at 12:47 AM  

Way to purr there at the end, Ale! =D

December's Starlet January 26, 2007 at 3:49 AM  

I am going to talk less, smile more..

ale January 26, 2007 at 4:08 PM  

well talking a little bit is ok - as long as its mindless drivel :)

Beenzzz January 27, 2007 at 2:07 AM  

I guess this stuff once in a while isn't too bad. Maybe mix it up with a little intelligence here and there. I mean a woman can't be a complete freakin' bimbo all the time! Right guys!!!!:)

ale January 27, 2007 at 6:05 PM  

hi beenzzz!
the guys are baffled and choosing to remain silent...
but i agree, mixing it up is good. like a friend of mine said once: i LOVE intelligent women, I preffer intelligent women! long as they're not more intelligent then me.

Mike January 28, 2007 at 3:51 AM  

I don't know... Hiding behind a princess mask seems like a recipe for divorce. Or at least a long life of marital discontent. Why be fake?

ale January 28, 2007 at 3:55 PM  

well its actually the opposite! being a princess right from the start is being honest and real. the mask lots of women put on is " i'm easy to please, undemanding, anything goes" AND THAT is a recipe for divorce. after a while women show their real face - the demanding princess face- and the guys go into a total shock --

so you're right, why be fake? establish that you are a princess right from the start :)

Guyana-Gyal February 6, 2007 at 8:28 PM  

A bit of the sulks can be good too. Not too much, just enough to make him sweat.

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